Boudoir Privacy: What We Share, What We Never Share, and Your Options

Most clients opt not to share their photos or choose the “wait to see” option. We’re never offended and always understand! Boudoir privacy is a personal choice that we honor. You can even see the questionnaire clients receive below:

Your name is never attached to your boudoir photos

If you do allow marketing use, we never publish your name alongside images. No first names, no last names, no tags. We never want any client to be searchable without their consent. We understand you’re not a professional model and might not want your imagery out there for someone to stumble across. We often work with teachers, nurses, therapists, and professionals in general who want seperate between their work and private life, which we fully support.

What about the studio experience?

We keep sessions private and paced. You won’t be rushed or rotated through like a factory line. Sessions are up to three hours, allowing plenty of time to warm up and feel comfortable.

We start every session by going over your outfits. If you’ve answered on your questionnaire that you’d like to do nude or implied nude, we’ll talk through that in person to make sure we’re on the same page for what you’d like to capture and how that will unfold.

Most often, we transition from one outfit into a scene for fine art nude photos in a way that feels cinematic. Like a woman undressing in a movie. The photographer will demonstrate the flow of poses and communicate where she’ll be and what she’ll be capturing to make sure you feel good.

Want to talk through privacy and comfort level before you book? Book a Free Consult below.

So, still wondering what to wear for a boudoir photoshoot? The best answer is: whatever makes you feel confident, comfortable, and undeniably yourself. Below, I’ll walk you through outfit ideas, how to choose pieces that photograph beautifully, and what to bring (even if you’re not a lingerie person).

Let’s start here: you don’t need a “boudoir body” to do boudoir.

You don’t need to lose ten pounds, buy a bunch of lingerie, or feel like you have to show a specific amount of skin for your session to be “worth it.” Boudoir at Revealed Studios is about feeling safe, supported, and seen — and creating images that feel artistic, emotive, and so you.

The Most Flattering Pieces for your boudoir photoshoot (That Photograph Like Magic)

1) A Bodysuit (The “One and Done” Hero)

Pro tip: Look for lace, mesh, or interesting seams — texture adds depth on camera.

2) A Matching Set (Elevated, Classic, Always Works)

8) Your Partner’s Shirt (Or Something With Meaning)

What Colors to wear for a boudoir photoshoot?

Truthfully: a lot of colors work. But if you want the easiest “yes,” these are consistently gorgeous on camera:

“I Don’t Own Lingerie… and I’m Nervous.”

This experience is about sensuality without shame — and that looks different for everyone.

What to Bring to Your Boudoir Session (My Suggested Packing List)

Quick Prep Tips So You Feel Amazing

Ready to Plan Your Boudoir Wardrobe Together?

If you’re feeling unsure, I’ve got you. We’ll talk through your comfort level, your vibe, and the kind of images you want to create — and I’ll help you choose outfits that feel supportive, tasteful, and completely aligned with you.

If you’re ready to start planning your session, reach out here: Inquire with Revealed Studios

And if you want a little extra guidance first, check out: What to Expect at Your Boudoir Shoot

She Surprised Her Husband With Boudoir Photos – His Reaction Was Priceless (Video)

Most women book a boudoir session hoping it will be the perfect gift.

But this client?
She completely blew her husband away.

When she handed him a custom boudoir album for his birthday, his reaction was so emotional, so genuine, and so priceless — it had to be recorded.

If you’ve ever wondered whether boudoir photos are really worth it as a gift for your husband… this story says everything.

What Inspired You to Do a Boudoir Session?

“I was trying to think of something awesome to surprise my husband with for his birthday… He has joked about me doing a boudoir shoot for him years ago and I thought it would be the perfect thing to blow him away since we hadn’t ever talked about it seriously. It was the perfect gift to go above and beyond his expectations!”

This heartfelt intention—not just a gift, but a thoughtful surprise—set the tone for the entire experience.

Were You Nervous About Taking These Photos?

Before the session, excitement and nerves took turns:

“When I first booked my session, I was so excited and the anticipation was killing me… But as soon as the night before the shoot came, I turned into a bundle of nerves. I didn’t eat the whole day before I was so scared! Thankfully, as soon as I got to the shoot, Maggie instantly settled my fears into pure excitement and made me feel so comfortable.”

Once the shoot began, fun and confidence took over:

“We had so much fun! … She made me feel more and more beautiful and empowered with every click of her camera.”

Why’d You Choose Revealed Studios?

Selecting the right studio mattered:

“I did a lot of research into different Chicago based boudoir studios… When I found Revealed Studio’s website I was so impressed with the quality and beauty of the pictures… I quickly knew that I had found the perfect studio for me.”

This shows how thoughtful research and stunning visuals can build trust even before a client books.

What Was the Best Part of Your Boudoir Experience?

Beyond the surprise for her husband, something deeper emerged:

“One of my favorite aspects of this whole experience was how empowered I felt after I did the shoot… I love how both Maggie and Kelly make the experience about feeling beautiful as a woman and doing it for yourself.”

Her confidence boost wasn’t just a bonus—it was a central part of her Chicago boudoir photography experience.

How’d You Feel After Seeing Your Boudoir Photos?

Her reaction speaks volumes:

“I feel incredible! … I couldn’t believe I was looking at myself! I looked sexy and confident and I was so pleased with how the boudoir photos turned out… I couldn’t wait to show my husband!”

This kind of enthusiasm not only makes a great story—it reinforces the emotional value clients are looking for in a boudoir experience.

The Emotional Impact

The Surprise Factor

The Confidence Boost (For You)

A Lasting Keepsake (Why Albums Matter More Than Digital)

The Confidence Transformation

The Self-Image Shift

Doing It For Yourself

Ready to See His Reaction?

Whether it’s for a birthday, wedding, anniversary, or “just because” — a boudoir album is more than a gift.

It’s an experience that changes how you see yourself.

If you’re looking for a trusted Chicago boudoir photographer who will guide you every step of the way, we would love to create something unforgettable with you.

Apply for your session at Revealed Studios today — and let’s plan your surprise.erience today, and let’s plan your unforgettable surprise.

Key questions to ask before your boudoir photoshoot

What to ask when booking your boudoir photo shoot experience (and the answers to listen for)

Boudoir is having a moment — and I love that for us.

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How Revealed Studios creates sexy, tasteful, and sensual boudoir for all people

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The Top 20 Questions to Ask Before Booking Your Boudoir Session

1) How long have you been photographing boudoir — and who do you photograph most?

3) How do you guide posing and expression?

5) What’s included in the experience (prep, styling support, hair + makeup)?

8) Where do you shoot? What sets are available?

10) Do you photograph everyone the same?

13) Can I request more or less retouching?

17) How are my images stored and delivered?

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Final thought: trust your nervous system

When you talk to a photographer or studio, notice how you feel:
Do you feel rushed? Do you feel heard? Do you feel safe asking questions?

You deserve an experience that’s not only beautiful on the outside — but supportive on the inside.

If you want to learn more about our approach, see galleries, or ask your own questions (yes, all of them), reach out — we’ll reply within 24 hours.

If you haven’t yet, connect with us on Instagram for behind-the-scenes moments and lots more boudoir photos.

A Guide to Embracing Body Positivity and Self-Confidence Through Boudoir Photography

Understanding Body Positivity

The body positivity movement emerged in the 2000s in defiance of dated messaging valuing a limited view of beauty. These unhealthy and often unachievable expectations hit a critical point when mainstream figures and influencers started to push back. Slowly, more and more voices spoke out against the limited representation and archaic definitions of what’s considered attractive. 

Through a more inclusive and loving gaze toward oneself, body positivity recognizes that beauty is not one size fits all. In recent years, we’ve seen the media and fashion industry take steps toward more representation on the catwalk, in catalogs, in tv shows, and in movies. While we still have a long way to go, this correction has been healing for many, bringing forth a long-overdue sense of reasonable representation. 

The Role of Boudoir Photography

Boudoir photography offers an opportunity to fully embrace the body-positive movement. It emphasizes the beauty of all body types, sizes, ages, shapes, and colors. Boudoir photographers have promoted body positivity long before it became a buzzword. Many in the community are aligned to create a safe, accepting, and empowering space for clients.

 

For most, “we are our own worst critics” is true. We often don’t see ourselves as others do. We tend to focus on tiny details that most would never notice while glossing over the features others celebrate. Boudoir photos reveal another side of yourself through images created with compassion. A boudoir is a chance to see yourself with kind eyes. Discover the beauty you might otherwise miss.

 

What is Body positivity?

Definition and Importance: Body positivity is the assertion that all people deserve to have a positive body image, regardless of how society and popular culture view ideal shape, size, and appearance.

 

“All is beautiful” Andy Warhol.

• Empowerment: Boudoir is all about embracing who you are and where you’re at. It affirms that beauty comes in all shapes, sizes, and ages. We need only let go of our old, dated notions and stereotypes and see beauty in all. A compassionate photographer and a safe space can help make this shift in attitude possible. 
• Artistic Expression: Boudoir photography’s artistic element allows subjects to see themselves from a different perspective that celebrates their unique beauty. 
• Personal Transformation: We’ve worked with boudoir clients who’ve struggled with self-acceptance, eating disorders, aging, breast cancer, sexual assault, and more. Boudoir has allowed them to feel safe and accept themselves with loving kindness. It’s provided them a chance to feel secure expressing their sensuality without feeling taboo or judged. 

Preparing for a Boudoir Photoshoot

Choosing a Photographer.

A photographer’s portfolio is one of many things you should consider before booking your boudoir photoshoot. Their work may be beautiful, but what’s their vibe like?  It’s a bit like choosing a therapist. It’s essential to feel safe and comfortable for such an intimate experience. When researching, check their about me page and read through anything that describes their philosophy. You’ll get a sense of how they value body positivity and their approach to the work they create. You can find other helpful tips to remember in our article, such as choosing a boudoir photographer. 

Outfit Selection.

What you wear during your Boudoir photo shoot is a personal choice that should reflect your tastes and comfort. Many lingerie brands embrace body positivity with an inclusive range of sizes and styles to flatter everyone. We often recommend wearing timeless pieces you’ll feel good looking back on for decades. However, this is your experience, so embrace your unique style. Don’t force it if you’re not a stilettos and lace person! The most important thing is to wear what you feel good in. We offer an extensive prep and style guide for our clients that dives deep into the weeds on this topic to ensure you’re fully supported before your photoshoot. If you’re having difficulty finding pieces that flatter your figure, this article on lingerie for different body types is a great place to start. 

Setting the Scene.

A lot goes on behind the scenes to create a comfortable environment. We believe in creating a supportive and relaxing space, so you’ll feel great about yourself when you start your photoshoot.  That starts with a phone call before your photo shoot so you can hear directly from us what to expect and get a sense of our personalities.

Once you arrive at the studio for the photo shoot, we welcome you with big smiles and treat you the way we’d want to be treated–like an old friend. We look through all your outfits and accessories together, offer you champagne, and then, during hair and makeup, we all chat to help calm the nerves. We try to create a space like an old-school beauty parlor where you come to talk, laugh, and feel pampered. The studio is clean, beautifully decorated, and lit with floor-to-ceiling windows, so you feel like you’re on a film set in NYC. 

Overcoming Insecurities.

Everyone, literally everyone, comes in with insecurities, and this is super normal. The important thing is to know you’re not alone, and we’re here to help you support you through those nerves. While you might feel like you’re jumping out of an airplane, the risk is well worth the reward on this one. Showing up and completing the photo shoot is a massive act of bravery and self-love that will pay off for years and years to come. One thing that can be helpful is just saying the fear out loud. Naming it can do wonders in overcoming those doubts. Acknowledging that you’re nervous, admitting that you have some insecurities, and then hearing that we accept you, we see you, and we’re here for you is often all it takes to continue. 

Facing Fears: Positive Reinforcement.

One of the reasons we love Boudoir so much is because it gives us the chance to support and celebrate women/them. It brings me so much joy to help others feel encouraged and accepted. You are in good hands at Revealed. Our team is comprised of like-minded women who are kind and encouraging. But, if ever there’s a point where you feel like it’s too much, we understand and can break or pivot, adding layers if necessary, which can help you feel less vulnerable.  

Real Stories of boudoir clients 

Many clients who’ve passed through our doors have started their session off with a disclaimer: “I’m so nervous,” “I’m insecure about this,” or “I’m not confident with…” We’ve worked with women who’ve overcome eating disorders, anxiety issues, disease, life-threatening illness, and sexual assault. We approach all out client’s experiences with care and sensitivity, assuring them that some nervous are normal and they’re not alone. We’ve let them know others have also been in their shoes and we are here to hold space for them in the process to overcome those fears. We try to listen with empathy and, through our efforts and energy, create an atmosphere that lets them feel safe to express themselves with gentle coaching. We talk through the process with them, asking what they’re comfortable with and providing information in advance so they have agency over any more revealing, implied, or nude poses.

One woman wrote after her experience with us:

“Everyone was so warm and inviting and it was so easy to get comfortable even in a situation that pushed my personal boundaries. I’ve struggled with my body image for the better part of the last 10 years, but I can confidently say that I’ve never loved my body more than when I was in the studio. As a midsized person, you don’t see my body type in media or in magazines, even now as things get a little more size inclusive, so while this was for me, it was also for women like me who want to feel beautiful, who want to see that there are no rules when it comes to things like this.”

Celebrating Diversity

Inclusive Practices.

Beauty is so much more than Skin Deep. It comes from within. We find beauty and all, no matter the shape, size, age, color, and gender. While we are here to create pictures that bring out your best angle in an aesthetically pleasing way, we also know that a person’s spirit is the ingredient that makes an image come to life. We strive to make our studio a safe, comfortable environment where anyone can come to feel seen and celebrated.

Highlighting Uniqueness.

Our experience working with people from all different backgrounds has helped refine our ability to discover and highlight the best in anyone on the other side of our camera lenses. 

Long-term Benefits

Self-Acceptance.

For those struggling with body confidence, self-acceptance may not happen overnight. But you can get there through big and small acts. Small efforts, like gratitude journaling or self-care rituals, help. But a boudoir photoshoot, like landing on the right square in shoots and ladders, can propel you ahead in a big way, giving a jumpstart to your confidence. 

Boudoir photography is more than just capturing intimate images; it celebrates the individual, promoting self-love, body positivity, and confidence. By capturing each person’s unique beauty, boudoir photography can be a transformative experience that fosters a deeper appreciation for oneself.

Ready to learn more?  Message us to receive our complimentary style guide or hear about our offerings. We’d love to connect with you!

 

You want to select the best Chicago boudoir photographer for your session. However, with so many photographers available, many with glowing feedback and five-star reviews, how do you make the right decision? Don’t worry; we’ll help with that!

Why Choose One Chicago Boudoir Photographer Over Another?

Of course, we’re not the only show in town. There are many Chicago boudoir photographers in the city – but that begs the question: what sets one apart from another?

With over eight years of boudoir experience, we have photographed women of all different shapes, sizes, ages, and backgrounds – and we’ve learned a thing or two during that time!

While we would like to simply say, ‘Choose Revealed as your Chicago boudoir photographer’ – that alone doesn’t tell you much about us or why you should select us. Instead of bias, we have spotlighted the following five key points to help you make the right decision and prove why we think we’re the perfect candidate for your dream boudoir shoot.

1. 100% Female Staff

Make no mistake: there are many excellent male Chicago boudoir photographers. We know plenty of amazingly talented and highly professional boudoir photographers who happen to be men. With that said, unfortunately, there are some creeps out there, so knowing there’s zero risk of running into a sketchy situation during your session can make a world of difference when it comes to your comfort.

That’s not to say all male photographers are icky. We know some amazing male boudoir photographers, but due diligence is necessary for something as intimate as this. That’s why, at Revealed, we stick with an all-female staff. There is one main reason we opt for this policy: customer comfort.

We understand that posing in sensual outfits and having photographs taken can be a daunting experience for some women. As such, we want you to have one less thing to worry about during your session; having an understanding, all-woman team supporting you can make a world of difference to your confidence and comfort levels.

Naturally, boudoir photography is an intimate experience. If you are already comfortable with a male boudoir photographer, that’s fantastic. On the other hand, if you are a newcomer to the boudoir world, it might do your confidence good to have an all-female team behind you.

Whatever the case, the bottom line is this: a true professional will never make you feel uncomfortable, regardless of gender. That’s why your comfort and safety are our utmost priority before, during, and after your shoot – first and foremost, before anything else.

“I was a little nervous at first, not knowing what to expect. Maggie and Kelly were truly amazing to work with. They make you feel very comfortable the moment you walk in the door.” Read more testimonials from our real clients here.

1. Posing Is Key

Here’s the thing, everyone thinks they need to lose five or ten pounds before coming in. We promise you don’t – you’re perfect as you are. Sadly, many people don’t believe that, but it’s true. When having a boudoir shoot, one of the most important factors is a photographer who knows how to direct you into stunning poses that flatter you and highlight your best angles.

The right pose, along with a beautiful outfit and hair and makeup session, can go a long way in capturing the elegance and quality you desire. The best Chicago boudoir photographers understand what angles flatter different body types and can coach you there with ease.

It’s true: there are a lot of wonderful Chicago boudoir photographers, but the true test of skill is a boudoir portfolio showing a broad range of women of all shapes, sizes, and styles looking fabulous – not just one body type. For some inspiration, check out one of our behind-the-scenes videos showing how we coach a beautiful pose.

 

1. A Honed Craft

Come across any Chicago boudoir photographer, and you’ll likely find someone with a high-end SLR camera, complex photo editing software, and other fancy accessories. Yet a great picture requires a lot more than just expensive gear. It takes experience and the right approach. It also takes an artistic flair that cannot be taught.

Simply put, it’s not the equipment that makes the picture but the person behind the lens. Someone can spend all the money in the world on fancy gizmos, yet it is true knowledge of how light, lens choice, angles, and timing all go into what brings an image to life.

This applies to any photography project, although it is especially pertinent when it comes to boudoir photos. Experience and talent are key in making any woman look great – not to mention a healthy amount of EQ, which is particularly important when they’re looking gorgeous in their lingerie!

1. Tastes Vary

Chicago boudoir photography doesn’t fit into a small, restricted box. There are many different approaches and styles that are used for photo shoots. If you want something traditional and classic, you can find someone to do the job. If luxury boudoir is more to your taste, no problem. There are even Chicago boudoir photographers available that will opt for an overt, even cartoonish take on sessions.

Selecting the right style for your tastes and preferences is obviously important. For us, boudoir photos that really bring out those “ooh…” and “awe…” reactions are those that wouldn’t look out of place in a magazine. That’s what we always aim to achieve for our clients at Revealed.

Whatever route you take, avoid settling for the obvious or cliché. Work that elevates has an artistry to it that, ultimately, leaves you feeling positive and empowered.

1. It’s All About the Ambiance

Location is an element you should never overlook with a boudoir photoshoot. The setting can make all the difference to the quality and style of the photos. Typically, Chicago boudoir photographers will snap their shots in home studios, hotel rooms, or in front of storefronts. What’s important to remember is that not all locations are created equal.

Location is important to consider if you’re looking into a future boudoir session. It’ll determine your photos’ background and affect your overall experience. Whether virtually or in person, check a place out before booking a shoot and see if it matches your vibe. It’s okay if you’re not in a “boudoir studio,” so long as you’re in a safe, comforting space.

When we first started out, we worked out of hotel rooms and even our own homes. We did our absolute best to ensure the experience was still as professional as possible, no matter the location. However, reading a point when we could have our own studio space was a highlight of our career. It allowed us the ability to control the atmosphere and have full confidence in the setting.

 

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We often look for new ways to celebrate our milestones as we age. Whether it’s a 30th, 40th, 50th, or even a 60th birthday, these milestones are an opportunity to reflect on the past, look forward to the future, and celebrate the present. What better way to practice self-love at any age than with a milestone boudoir photoshoot? 

If self-love isn’t reason enough, discover why people choose boudoir. 

1. Confidence. 

One of the most significant benefits of having a boudoir photoshoot is the boost in confidence it can give you. In taking action, despite any nerves pulling you back, you affirm your value. Committing to this experience is like shouting “I’m worth” at the top of your lungs–which you ARE! Trusting a team of women to capture you, even in what for many is a very vulnerable state, further reinforces your confidence and bravery. 

You’ll walk away feeling a bit like you climbed a mountain or dove off a cliff. It’s fun, invigorating, and is a powerful boost to your confidence. 

2. Celebrating the Body

We all have insecurities about our bodies, especially as we age. However, a boudoir photoshoot is an opportunity to celebrate and appreciate your body for all it is. It’s a chance to see yourself in a new and kind light. When working with trusted professionals who support and guide you the whole way, you’ll feel safe looking at your body with loving kindness rather than through a critical lens. 

3. Signifying the Future

“Aging is not ‘lost youth’ but a new stage of opportunity and strength.” 

– Betty Friedan

A milestone birthday is a perfect time to reflect on the past and plan for the future. A boudoir photoshoot can be a symbolic way to signify the start of a new chapter in your life. It’s a way to honor the person you are now and all you hope to be. When you imagine your best self, what do they look like? Not just on the surface. How is their body language? What is their posture? How do they speak to themselves? I bet your imagined best self’s inner voice is kind. I bet there is peace and appreciation for the incredible things your body has lived through and achieved. Hold tight to that vision and bring that sense of gratitude to your milestone photoshoot. 

4. Empowerment

A boudoir photoshoot is an empowering experience. It’s a way to take control of your body and your image. You get to choose what you wear, how you pose, and how you want to be photographed. It’s an opportunity to feel completely in charge of your image. You get to have full agency over what you wear and how you wear it, even if it’s nothing at all! Not only is this liberating, but it’s also so fun! It’s your chance for a little adult dress-up. Embracing a sense of fantasy and playfulness. Step out of your yoga pants, jeans, or workwear and into something that transports you into a new energy. For ideas, check out this article. 

5. The Ultimate Act of Self-Care

A boudoir photoshoot is the ultimate act of self-care. It’s a way to treat yourself and do something that makes you feel good about yourself. It’s a chance to take time out of your busy schedule and focus on yourself for a change. Maybe you’re a nurse, a teacher, or a mom who, hour after hour, always puts others first; perhaps you’re an executive in a predominantly male workforce and eager for a safe venue to express your feminine side. Maybe you just went through a transformative physical journey, e.g., a bilateral mastectomy, a marathon, weight loss, or pregnancy, and are feeling ready for an experience to feel good in your body. 

6. Going Outside of Comfort Zones

A boudoir photoshoot can be challenging because you’re revealing yourself in a way you haven’t before. However, it’s also an opportunity to push yourself. It’s been said that growth happens outside of your comfort zone. So ditch the status quo and water your own soil. You might be surprised how much growth comes from your own personal milestone photoshoot. 

7. Making Memories

A milestone boudoir photoshoot is a way to create lasting memories. One day, decades from now, you’ll look back and love that you have these photos. You’ll say I lived. I was brave and beautiful, and I chose to love myself.

It’s also a way to create a legacy for future generations. While some photos might be for special eyes only, there will certainly be tastefully artistic images safe to share with your children one day. What a powerful example of self-love to show your children. You are also teaching them how to love themselves. 

There are so many reasons why women come to our studio, even beyond milestones and birthday boudoir photoshoots. Whatever yours, we’re here to support and affirm that it’s a valid one.

Commonly Asked Boudoir Photoshoot Questions 

You may have some questions if you’re considering a milestone boudoir photoshoot. Here are some commonly asked questions and how to prep for your photoshoot:

1. What should I wear? 

Wear something that makes you feel comfortable and confident. It can be lingerie, a favorite slip, or a t-shirt. Skies the limit when it comes to styling, from the ornate and complex to the casual and cozy, stray true to what feels right for you. 

2. Do I need to know how to pose? 

Not at all! Think of us as fitness instructors or movie directors. We’ll seamlessly guide you through a flow that looks natural and amazing. 

3. Can I bring a friend with me? 

Totally! We welcome friends during hair and makeup. We also offer bundle rates if you both want to do sessions at the same time!

4. How do I prepare for the photoshoot? 

Get a good night’s sleep, drink plenty of water, and make sure you’re well-rested. For more details, read our What to Expect section. For a how-to prep guide with links to our favorite stores for shopping and more, join our mailing list and receive our full 8-page prep guide. 

Don’t see your question? Check out our extensive FAQ page for additional questions and answers about boudoir photography and your photoshoot.

In conclusion, a boudoir photoshoot is a great way to celebrate a milestone birthday. It’s an opportunity to boost your confidence, celebrate your body, and create lasting memories. If you’re considering one, don’t hesitate to take the plunge. You won’t regret it!

We totally think you should take naked photos during your nude boudoir photography session and here’s why…

Let me say this right off the bat; we totally think you should take nude photos during your nude boudoir photography session! Before you get too freaked out and run for the hills, let me explain. These nude photos aren’t any old snapshots – we’re talking tasteful nudes. While we’re not here to shame pornography, that’s not the line of work we’re in.

Instead, our field of expertise turns women into works of art through photography. We think the experience is liberating, empowering, and, honestly, fun. Plus, every resulting nude boudoir photo is an intimate, unforgettable creation that you might even hang up on your bedroom walls!

This article will cover the common ins and outs of taking nude boudoir photos, including:

–   Why should you take photos in the buff?

–   What’s it like to experience a nude photo shoot?

–   How to feel comfortable during your boudoir experience

–   Ensuring your images remain private if you’d prefer

–   How to use your nude images as wall art

–   How to dip your toes with implied nude photography

What Are the Benefits of Taking Naked Pictures?

“Take a thousand naked pictures of yourself now. You may currently think, “Oh, I’m too spooky,” or “Nobody wants to see these tiny boobies,” but believe me: one day, you will look at those photos with much kinder eyes and say, ‘Dear God, I was a beautiful thing!’”- Moira Rose

We know there are plenty of reasons to indulge in nude boudoir photography. So, what are the reasons why you should give it a shot? For one, the experience can be very liberating. When photographed in a safe environment by a professional, you create a positive association with your nude form.

For those who’ve experienced trauma with their bodies or struggled with shame or insecurity, the process of taking a nude boudoir photo can be very healing. It’s a brave act that can support a greater sense of self-acceptance. For others, it can simply feel good to be less restricted. There’s something a little magical about letting your body be the subject rather than your clothing!

What to Do with Your Nude Pictures?

Throughout history, people have used the human form as works of art, and yours should be no exception. Often with our clients, we create abstract images that are subtle yet striking. We also love turning these boudoir photos into framed prints for wall art. If you’re a bit bashful about having your bum on display for all to see, a bathroom, bedroom, or private closet can be your spot of choice for your nude boudoir photo (no one but you or your partner need to see it!).

We’ve had clients create collages to hang over their beds, tiny prints to sneak into a gallery wall, and others who’ve chosen a more private product like an album or image box that can be stored in a secret area. We have plenty of options, whatever your flavor! Our goal is to provide nude boudoir photography in Chicago that suits every woman.

How to Not Feel Nervous Before a Nude Boudoir Photoshoot?

Does the prospect of a nude boudoir photo shoot fill you with stress? Perhaps you’re worried about embarrassment or scared that you’ll run for the hills once you step into the studio. Fear not – there are plenty of ways to make the nude boudoir photography experience as stress-free as a spa day.

One way to ease your nerves before your photoshoot is to build trust with your photographer before getting undressed. At our studio in Chicago, Kelly and I will do everything we can to help you settle into the photo shoot, so feel free to talk to us as much as you want so that you feel comfortable.

Another way to feel less nervous is to talk to people that have done a nude boudoir photo shoot before, like your neighbor, coworker, best friend, or sister. If you’d like, consider taking one of these people along to the shoot (they can always stay in another room while you slip into your birthday suit!)

What’s It Like Taking Naked Photos?

The lead-up…

The lead-up to a Chicago boudoir photography session might have you full of questions. Well, we’re here to ensure you know exactly what to expect. First, you’ll book your session – don’t worry, our Chicago Boudoir Prices are hard to match! Then, you’ll enter the appointment and get your hair and makeup professionally done, all ready to create luxury boudoir photos that you’ll treasure forever.

In our line of work, we see a lot of bodies, so many that we’re pretty darn comfortable with nudity. To us, there is no shame in the naked form, which is why we love creating nude boudoir photography. That being said, it’s normal to feel vulnerable and even uncomfortable in the buff (We’re with you. I still get shy when I’m naked in front of my husband or at the OBGYN!).

To create the most comforting nude boudoir photography experience, Kelly and I work backward from the experience we’d want for ourselves. That is to say, we want to feel like we’re in the hands of a professional who also makes us feel like an instant friend. We do that by being lighthearted (laughter is always helpful during boudoir photography), warm, and open. You are in the driver’s seat here, and we’ll always check with you first on how much you want to reveal.

Before we start, we’ll also talk through the flow of nude boudoir photography so that there are no surprises. For example, we might say, “in this in this scene, there’s an option for a photo where we capture you taking your bra off from behind. You can completely cover your chest, position your arms for a bit of side boob, or drop your arms down. It’s whatever you’re comfortable with.”

A typical scenario for creating fine art nudes:

To help you feel more comfortable, we’ll even demonstrate poses, showing exactly how limbs can cover private parts. That way, you’ll have complete agency over what you want to show, whether that’s a touch of elegance with poses that hide the naked body or a more revealing photo shoot. We recognize that everyone has different comfort levels and personal histories in this area. We never push anyone to do something they don’t want to. Your comfort and confidence are our priority.

Often, “getting naked” happens in a flow of posing so that it feels like the continuation of a sequence, e.g., taking off your bra or undressing before bed. We are drawn to images that feel natural and, not to sound cheesy, but a bit poetic. There are times when we do stand-alone shots, like the one below. In those instances, we’ll show the pose and let you get in position.

We don’t do the whole ‘completely leave the room’ thing while this happens, but Kelly and I might chit-chat or check our camera settings to allow you some privacy. Then, we’ll snap away before handing you a robe upon the completion of the nude boudoir photography session. Our goal is to make the process a breeze for you.

Baring it all: what if you want to do a full frontal “Samantha-sex-in-the-city” moment?

Sometimes clients request an entire “series” of nude photos with a variety of poses. In this case, we like to talk through their vision beforehand to make sure everyone is on the same page. For example, one client did a vintage-fold-out inspired series on a white background. She let us know her concept up front and talked through what feel she wanted. The resulting photos are timeless, feminine, and playful.

As for our boundaries, we’re comfortable with “baring it all,” so long as the tone of the images leans more implied over explicit. Remember, you are in the driving seat of the nude boudoir photo shoot – you are in complete control at all times.

“I’m not there yet, but what about implied nude?”

If you’re not ready to rock your birthday suit in a nude boudoir photography shoot, there are other options for you! A cleverly draped sheet can be used to create the same effect. You can keep everything on beneath but drop your bra straps or stick out a leg to create the effect of “wearing nothing but the sheets.” Just let us know, and we’ll be happy to accommodate you.

On privacy: how to keep your nude photos “for your eyes only”

You’re in good company if your biggest concern regarding your nude boudoir photo session is keeping these oh-so-intimate images private. Most of our clients opt never to show their boudoir photos, even those wearing lingerie. We fully support that decision. We provide a password-protected link that allows access to the final images from the boudoir photography session, where you can download them to your personal storage device for safekeeping.

I’m gonna geek out for a minute, but we personally use a multi-factor password system to store our images. We highly recommend this for anyone hoping to keep their most intimate pictures just that – intimate and private. We’re also happy to delete your pictures from our storage devices upon your request after you’ve received them. Just keep in mind that we won’t be able to retrieve them if your copy is lost or corrupted if you choose that option. Lastly, we only ever publish images in our marketing material after receiving written consent for use.

We provide a nude boudoir photography experience that we are proud of. If you’re interested in getting your Chicago Boudoir Photos done, why not visit our gallery of fine art nudes? It’ll show you what to expect!

Have more questions? Contact us here or call 773-273-9063.

 

The foolproof guide to shopping for your boudoir photoshoot

Alright, you’ve officially booked your session, now it’s time to must-have items for boudoir photo shoot.  Unless you have a career as a burlesque dancer or stage actress, you prooooobably don’t wear garters on a regular basis. So it’s no surprise if you’re unsure which style to buy.  You’re in the majority, don’t worry!

From our years of experience, we’ve learned a few tricks of the trade. Now it’s time to divulge our secrets.

These are insider tips for what to bring to your boudoir photoshoot:

1. Heels: First of all, let’s get this out of the way, you do NOT need to bring heels. If you’re a flats-only or no shoes at all, barefoot kinda gal, that’s ok with us. But for those who embrace a high-heel, we recommend a classic black or nude pump. We’re particularly keen on one with a pointed toe because it elongates the leg. Why a nude or black pump, you ask? From one shoe lover to another, we understand the inclination for the hottest trend on the market (hello studded Valentino’s), but unless you plan to do a boudoir session every year for the rest of your life (which is cool with us) a neutral stiletto os a versatile and timeless choice. They’ll go with anything without being distracting.
2. Bras: Here’s our most important piece of advice when it comes to a bra, buy one that fits. Second, (a close second), bring one with support. The first should be obvious, but frankly, it’s kinda tricky to nail the right size. Nordstrom or Victoria’s Secret offer complimentary fittings to all their customers. As for our second nugget of wisdom, it comes from a good place. You’re going to be lying down a lot during your session, so you’ll want something to keep the girls tucked in nicely. For more on this matter, check out our article on finding the perfect lingerie for your body type. 
3. Bodysuit: Along the same line as this, when it comes to bodysuits or slips, if you happen to be well-endowed up top, look for pieces with built-in support or shapewear material like Pinsy’s shapewear line. Kelly actually did plenty of research in this area when she did her boudoir shoot and came across a unique piece from UK-based line & Other Stories. Unfortunately, they no longer carry the exact piece, but it can be an inspiration for something similar.The goal is to find something that will lift the girls and help define your waist.  Items with detailing at your real waist are also wonderful for further highlighting and even creating the illusion of a waist. Just keep in mind, you’re going to be moving quite a bit during your boudoir photo shoot, so you’ll want to make sure you’re garments are doing their job and shaping you.
4. Underwear: This is quite personal, and to be honest, it might depend on who’s on the receiving end of your pictures. But we’ll add a few qualifications to consider.
   • If you have tan lines, we recommend more coverage or opting for a spray or self-tanner to blend them a bit. Those with cellulite (you and me both) don’t let this be a deciding factor, we’ll take care of you there if you’re self-conscious of your dimples.
   • For those with booty envy, aka flatter bums, play it up with a thong or bikini style.
   • When it comes to buying thongs, go with this:
   • Not this: The first is almost universally more flattering.   Often times lingerie sets come with a v-string. Do yourself a favor and buy something separate to go with the top.
5. Layers: Having an outer option is a great way to add variety to your session and also gives you something to do in your images (like casually slipping it off). A silk or lace robe is lovely. A white shirt is our favorite and most popular layer.  There’s something super irresistible about a lady in a button-down shirt for boudoir photos. It works on so many levels, not just in creating visual interest, but also in the subtle messaging it makes to the viewer.
6. Jewelry: When it comes to jewelry for your boudoir session, we often say, “less is more.” Your lingerie and form should be the shining feature of these pictures. We recommend sticking to small, timeless pieces in gold or silver with pearls or sparkle. There are of course exceptions to every rule. We’ve seen clients layer necklaces (example below) effectively and it’s been quite the moment. To maintain a pleasing balance when opting for a statement jewelry look, keep everything else simple and understated. Another example of this is a body chain. They are so, so good when done right. Try wearing one with nothing up top or peeking beneath a layer.
   

   

7. Garters: No elastic, please! This might seem counterintuitive, but if you’re going all out, forget the elastic and let the clips do the work. This ensures no unwanted bulging around the top band like this. If, however, you can’t find a pair that works for you without the elastic, try a brand designed with this in mind. It’s a bit of a splurge, but Wolford has a line that we really love:
8. Water: No joke, a boudoir session can be quite the workout. Stay hydrated and get ahead of your sore muscles the next day!

For more style and prep tips for your boudoir session, send us an email and we’ll share our exclusive style guide pdf. You can also check out this birthday boudoir post with a list of some of our favorite boudoir props.

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